On Perseverance

As long as you don’t give up, you haven’t lost.

I know, what a cliché #amiright? But hear me out for just a sec.

Perseverance is important as duck (see how I cleverly replaced the F for a D? If you haven’t,now you have.)

Anyway, I was thinking about Graham Moore’s Oscars’ speech, you, know, the “Stay weird, stay different” one. Which brought me back to Tim Allen’s one liner in Galaxy Quest (a great Star Trek parody, by the way) where he says “Never  give up, never surrender.”

You know, a lot of people say those words, but they don’t really mean it, and I guess what I want to tell you today is to mean it. And eventually, whatever your goals are, they will happen.

They might not develop just like you had envisioned them, but they will happen.

By now you’re all like, “Duck you, C. S. That’s BS. You’ve got no idea what I’m going through.”

Weeeeell, I kind of do. We all think we’re so unique, right? And we are, but at the same time, we kind of aren’t.

See, every person on this Earth goes through shit in their lives (at some point or another), and here’s the trick: The levels of shit are infinite and the majority of shit isn’t easy to relate to or maybe it is, but that doesn’t matter. It’s still classified as shit because it’s shit to the person experiencing the shit. Makes sense?

Which basically means, “Respect other people’s battles” or as I like to call it, “Respect other people’s shit.” 

We all want to change something in our lives. That’s the reason we’re not born with what we wanted or needed. We have to learn and evolve in order to reach that magical state we want to be in. Sometimes, those around us have to learn and evolve too. And we might not reach our goals today, or tomorrow, or even in our lifetime (gender and race equality anyone?)

But eventually, we will.

As long as we stay true to ourselves and never give up.

Besides, it’s a really nice journey. Tough as hell, but totally worth it. I guess those of us who manage to reach old age come to realize that we set our goals to set our journey. You know why? Because in the end, we’re seeking journeys, not goals.

So never give up, never surrender. Stay true to yourself, and stay weird and stay different. Respect other people’s battles and make sure to enjoy the ride.

And always, always, always, have something to fight for.

C.S. Wilde writes about fantastical worlds, love stories larger than life and epic battles. She also, quite obviously, sucks at writing an author bio. She finds it awkward that she must write this in the third person, and hopes you won’t notice.

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12 comments on “On Perseverance
  1. djmorand says:

    Duck that shit … cause a monkey threw it! HA! I am right there with you buddy! Perseverance is the key. I used to always hear “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” You know, since we’re drudging up some adages. Good post and for that I say, good journey. *did someone just see Dolph Lungren?*

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  2. djmorand says:

    Oh it was just the 1990s Masters of the Universe version.

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  3. livingincyn says:

    So many wise words. And, yeah, I’m there with you. 100%. The other lesson I’m learning is, “don’t help those who don’t explicitly ask for it.” I mention it because I think it ties directly into your quote “respect other people’s shit”. Unless someone comes out and says, “I need your help with this and this” how am I to know if the so-called help I’m offering is even helpful at all? By the same token, it’s helping me realize that no one can help me unless I also explicitly ask for it. Live and let live…

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  4. Reminds me of that scene from Monty Python and the Holy Grail, after the Black Knight has his arms and legs chopped off in a fight and he says ‘all right, we’ll call it a draw.’

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  5. That’s ducking true!

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  6. Ahdad says:

    Duck me! Wise words.
    Basically you’re saying that my shit is not necessarily shittier than your shit but it’s still pretty shitty to me…
    Do I have my shit together?

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  7. A.B Mood says:

    Clara… You have no idea how much I needed this… For the past few days I’ve been letting it go.. The “shit” seems hard to deal with.. But reading this, I feel like DUCK IT man, I’m better than this duckery! We’ve all heard “never give up” a BAZILLION times, but sometimes you need to hear it just onnne more time for that extra push :’) Thanks for this love ❤

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